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Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Life is Good




I am looking at a photo copy of Antara’s visa in my hands. No, I don’t have the actual visa because it is fixed into her one way passport to the U.S. where we are headed on Thurs.!! I don’t have the original document because I spent half the day in the Thailand Embassy getting Antara a Thai visa so we can spend the night in Bangkok. I will pick it up tomorrow and we should be all set.

I spent the second half of today getting to the US Embassy where I picked up Antara’s birth certificate!

We should be on our way to Chicago Thursday!

Antara is looking at a bug on the floor.

Life is Good!

Monday, November 1, 2010

Aama



My mom retired from her job as a school psychologist and traveled with me to Nepal. She left after a month to take care of my siblings. Last night I received this poem that she wrote for me. It came unexpected and means the world to me. Thank you mom. I couldn't have done it without you.


Aama
(You Can Call Her Mother)

She searched the world for you
And climbed mountains

She took the rough road
And carried you all the way

She fought battles for you
And talked to kings and princes

She prayed and made offerings for you
And learned your ways

She held your hand for your first steps
And taught you your first words

She made loving friends for you
And they will stay by your side forever

She is Aama
And you can call her mother



Love Mom

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Our Last Days




I am in a frantic state attempting to get home. My visa expires this week so I had to get an extension just in case Antara’s birth certificate doesn’t get here this week. I am also attempting to do the last minute shopping that I have put off. Our friend, Jim, came back to KTM. He heard about the news that we get to go home and offered to bring the same bag he brought here home! Fabulous as I will be traveling back home through Bangkok alone with Antara. I also learned that I have an overnight layover in Bangkok now as they have changed the flight schedule and we can no longer catch a flight the same day we arrive. So I will be alone, with a baby and many bags. I am not complaining at this point.

Here are a few shots of the kids. We are trying to explain that Auntie and Antara are leaving for the United States. We take our morning walk around a circular path at the local temple. As you can see the streets are really tough with the stroller.

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Chicago Tribune Article

Chicago Tribune

In Katmandu, adoptive mom clears biggest hurdle to her return to Chicago
Warltier case is approved

Candice Warltier and her daughter, Antara, have been stranded in Nepal for nearly three months because of a change in adoption rules. (October 27, 2010)

Migration By Andrew L. Wang, Tribune reporter

October 30, 2010
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When Candice Warltier landed in Katmandu almost three months ago, she expected to be there only a short time as she tied up loose ends to finish her adoption a chubby-cheeked 1-year-old named Antara.

As it turned out, the Chicago woman stayed much longer, held up by an investigation by the U.S. State Department, which recently had changed its policy toward adoptions from Nepal.

But on Thursday, U.S. embassy officials in Katmandu gave Warltier the happy news. The investigation was done, and she and Antara could leave the country.

"My daughter and I are coming home," she said in an interview from her apartment in Katmandu.


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By the time she arrived on Aug. 7, Warltier had spent a year and a half working through the bureaucratic requirements of the adoption.

But because of a change in U.S. immigration policy while Warltier was en route, Antara couldn't be granted a visa to leave the country without further U.S. investigation. Nepal's adoption system has been plagued by abuse — kidnappings, fake documents — and the U.S. government changed its procedures, hoping to make sure abandoned children really were abandoned before being adopted.

Warltier, who writes a blog on the Tribune's ChicagoNow network and whose story was the subject of a Tribune column last month, was sure that Antara had been abandoned. Her daughter had lived at an orphanage since she was days old and no one had visited her, the girl's caretakers had told her.

They lived in a hotel until the cumulative expenses got to be too much, then moved into an apartment with a woman from Boston and her 4-year-old daughter, who were in the same predicament, Warltier said.

Five other U.S. families remained in limbo over Nepal adoptions, including two other families from Illinois. Warltier's file was the first approved among their group.

A spokeswoman for the U.S. State Department's Bureau of Consular Affairs declined to comment on individual cases but said that officials from the State Department and U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services had been dispatched to Nepal to expedite the investigations needed for visas to be approved.

Warltier said the families have built a close bond with one another during their time in the Himalayan capital, learning together about their children's native land and culture. Warltier said her happiness was tempered, knowing that the other families' wait would continue.

"I don't know why mine was approved and others haven't (been)," she said. "They may see this as hope that more files will be approved."

Mother and daughter weren't home-free yet, however. Warltier won't receive her visa until next week, and she must wait for the girl's original birth certificate to be mailed back to her from the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services office in New Delhi.

She isn't certain how long the remaining steps will take, though at a meeting Thursday with embassy officials, Warltier gave them a deadline.

"I told them, 'I have a flight booked for Nov. 4. I really want to be on that flight.'"

alwang@tribune.com

Friday, October 29, 2010

Our Last Night at the Summit










We had our last night at the Summit tonight. DeeDee and Bina; Vicki and Nima and a few other families toasted to us returning to the U.S. We will miss everyone and will work hard to bring the others home soon. Antara has her Namaste down, but does a great high five. She'll fit in perfectly. It is going to be hard for her to leave Bina and also Manoj, our driver!!!!

Thursday, October 28, 2010

A close friend of our family's is a pastor and very spirtual man. He married my sister. He wrote this for Antara.

I do not know where this came from, but I always trust the Muses, be strong Candy and Antara, the moment! have a good day

This moment, all we have…

I am thinking this early morn
Of Nepal, a beautiful place,
Mountains, valley's and strong people…

Antara, you are sleeping now
A new day will soon arrive

Someday you and your mom will know
These days of being uncertain, waiting
Will create a relationship like nothing else can.

It is the moment
Not the past, the past is gone, for ever

It is not the future,
Simply, it has not happened yet…

The moment
It’s all in the moment
This one, not that one you wished for…

Illusions and attachments fool us don't they,
Someday Antara you will understand and you will say,
Mommy this is what was to happen

What a day
What a moment
What a place
Where else can we be?

Peace

WE ARE COMING HOME

This all happened within the last 24 hours and I haven't had time to digest it all. I just received a call from a reporter who posted this. I know many people just emailed saying they saw the article and wondering what is going on. I'll email details later.

http://www.chicagobreakingnews.com/2010/10/candice-warltier-nepal-chicago-kathmandu-adoption.html


.Chicago woman gets OK to bring Nepali daughter home
October 28, 2010 11:23 AM | No Comments | UPDATED STORY

Candice Warltier and her daughter, Antara, have been stranded in Nepal because of a change in adoption rules. (Family photo)


When Candice Warltier landed in Katmandu almost three months ago, she only expected to be there a short time as she tied up loose ends on the process to adopt a chubby-cheeked 1-year-old named Antara.

As it turned out, the Chicago woman stayed much longer, held up by an investigation by the U.S. State Department, which had recently changed its policy toward adoptions from Nepal.


But today U.S. embassy officials in Katmandu gave her the happy news. The investigation was done, and they could return home to Chicago.


"My daughter and I are coming home," she said in an interview from her apartment in Katmandu.

By the time she arrived on Aug. 7, Warltier had already spent a year and a half working through the bureaucratic requirements of the adoption.


But because of a change in U.S. immigration policy while Warltier was in route, Antara couldn't be granted a visa to leave the country without further U.S. investigation. Nepal's adoption system has been plagued by abuse -- kidnappings, fake documents -- and while she was en route, the U.S. government changed its procedures, hoping to make sure abandoned children really were abandoned.


Warltier, whose story was the subject of a Tribune column last month, had done her own research and was sure that Antara had been abandoned. Her daughter lived at an orphanage for since she was days old and no one had visited her, the girl's caretakers had told her.

They lived in a hotel until the cumulative expense got to be too much and then moved into an apartment with a woman from Boston and her 4-year-old daughter, who were in the same predicament, Warltier said.

Five other U.S. families were in the same limbo over Nepal adoptions, including two other families from Illinois. Warltier's file was the first approved among their group.


The families have built a close bond with each other in their time in the Himalayan capital, learning together about their children's native land and culture, and Warltier said her happiness was tempered, knowing that the other families wait would continue.

"I don't know why mine was approved and others haven't," she said. "They may see this as hope that more files will be approved."

Mother and daughter aren't home-free yet, however. Antara's visa still must be approved, and Warltier must wait for the girl's original birth certificate to be mailed back to her from the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services office in New Delhi.

She isn't certain how long the remaining steps will take, though at a meeting today with embassy officials, Warltier gave them a deadline.

"I told them, 'I have a flight booked for Nov. 4. I really want to be on that flight."

-- Andrew L. Wang